Monthly Archives: June 2014

small words

Transformed thinking changes you in profound ways. I used to look at defeat as a loss, as the end. Defeat to me was a sign post saying STOP. Mistakes I made reinforced the self-generated notion that I wasn’t good enough. I don’t think that way anymore because I learned something...

How do I set this down?

Part of transformational thinking is the ability to let go, to get past being stuck, to move forward. Once, a patient asked me a question about this very issue, about his inability to move past a personal tragedy. He asked me, “How do you set something down when you don’t...

The Seeds of Plenty

There is an old Chinese proverb, “The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. But the second best time is today.” Sowing seeds for future harvesting provides us with a powerful metaphor for living. Transformed living means taking that concept to the next level. There was a...